When you go to a doctor to find out what he can to about your partner's complaint, and he tells you "its all in your head", that you have "Body Dysmorphic Disorder", where do you go, to a Psychiatrist?
Identifying a problem serves as a source of income, and will be used to generate income for as long as you support the evaluations with their pay. Even if you don't have a problem because you did at one time, the evaluations can continue indefinitely, and if a drug is prescribed, you may be invalidated by the use of the drug.
Well-meaning people seeking to protect themselves and others have found that in order to identify a problem, one needs to perceive it in another. What we've realized about this process is that the perception of a problem is most often based upon identification with it; that is, the problem is more frequently in the mind of the person who perceives it than it is in the world.
Most of our clients will benefit from the following books, journals, articles and examples. They are useful tools for preparation to recover and transform your life. Some of our clients have died, and lack of preparation may have made their departure premature. What I find tragic about this fact is that most of them were magnanimous people with good will.
We can't stop people from using technology to be harmful, but we can point to the deaths that have occurred as a result, and the harm that is continuing. We don't want to be motivated to change for the wrong reasons, nor committed to suicide, or murder to defy them, but we ought not undertake radical transformation without our partners consent. Sometimes, what we want for our partners is not what they want for themselves.
We'd also recommend an article called Survival in the Digital Age, and the companion piece Survival Ground, to serve as early warning to others of the dangers of negativity, judgmental thinking, or the evaluation of things we don't fully understand. While many may point to this work and cite the open use of the word God, or the folly of putting faith in Him, we have yet to find a better example of Creation than the one we've been given, and cannot have contempt for the workbench we've been given to work on.